curious about thoughts on this.

     Happy Tuesday everyone! I hope you all had a fun and SAFE Memorial Weekend! 


     My hubby worked a 24hr shift Friday so Sunday was a easy day for us once he was off work.
Then Sunday we went to a church picnic and it was a lot of Fun! However Monday was my FAVORITE day of the weekend! Family time :) We took our dogs to the park they LOVED it! We even had a picnic in the park area outside the dog park. We walked around the lake.. the area is beautiful! 
After the park we came home and played Frisbee outback. I got some awesome pictures I will post probley tomorrow for wordless Wednesday. 
    I can't believe that my son will be 4 months old tomorrow. A lot of the time I am like I have to be dreaming.. What have I done to be this blessed. I have a wonderful family. Amazing husband and a even more amazing son! I do not know what I have done to deserve this. I swear I am dreaming. I just can't believe it! My husband is so great to me and our son. No he is not perfect nor am I. But he tries. He gets frustrated when Xavier cries bc he can't always tell what he wants. Where as me I can tell what each cry is. A friend of ours made a comment was a concerned with how Thomas is with Xavier b/c of Thomas short temper. But when Thomas gets upset he always tells me and says for me to take him to give him a break. He does not have a lot of experience with babies. In fact he is scared of them. l0l. But he tries and gets better each day. I think he is a amazing dad. He plays with him, changed diapers, helps me with anything I need. He lets me have mommy time. Just when Xavier is in a really upset mood and screams Thomas can't take it. But he knows his limits. Which is good so I do not worry. I know he could never harm a baby. But our friends are concerned. I do not know what to do. They are moving soon and I do not wanna ruin the friendship. They took me aside and talked to me alone. Thomas feels betrayed b/c they did not talk to them. I see and understand both sides. But I am not worried bout our son. Has anyone else had to go through something like this? I have worked with children my entire life. Thomas has not. He has to learn how to be a parent. I have a wonderful motherly instinct and connection and experience so yes I care for Xavier more than anyone. I mean the longest I have ever been away in the 4 months is a hour when I go to the gym. We have only had one time where Thomas called me saying Xavier was screaming and he tried everything a bottle, changing him, playing with him, etc but nothing stopped. He just wanted me as soon as I got home. (the gym is a few min away on post.) he calmed down. That is good. Anyone have thoughts or anything? Am I not being cautious bc my husband has a short fuse? Help please? Everyone else has noted he is great with our son.